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# The Meeting Paradox

Meetings are now the thing that people complain about most in the workplace, and this annoyance shows the deeper conflicts regarding the way we organise collaborative work. The situation has come about because of several factors having come together.

In the first place, digital calendars made it effortless to schedule meetings, getting rid of the natural limitation that had previously restricted how often they could take place; since arranging a meeting now only takes a few clicks, the psychological barrier to making a call vanishes and as a result there is exponential growth in the number of meetings without any corresponding increase in their value.

On the other hand, remote and hybrid working has paradoxically led to a greater reliance on meetings. Since there are no hallway chats or the usual casual checks on someone's desk, companies have made up for this by arranging formal meetings for kinds of interaction that used to take place spontaneously, filling their schedules with synchronous time and as a result disrupting concentration.

Third, there is a common misunderstanding regarding activity and productivity. Meetings provide visible proof that "work is being done"—they photograph well, lead to the creation of action items, and meet managers' need to show that they are exercising oversight. Because of this, they are appealing even though asynchronous communication could achieve the same objectives more efficiently.

Fourth, bad meeting habits have become the norm: the agendas are vague, it's not clear who has the authority to make decisions, there are too many people present, and the meeting length is always set at thirty or sixty minutes regardless of whether it's actually needed. Since few organizations provide training to people on how to run effective meetings, these poor practices tend to worsen.

In the end, knowledge workers are beginning to place a high value on deep and concentrated work, meeting being the main kind of interruption to that state. Since people have become more aware of the concept of 'flow' and cognitive load, the opportunity cost of holding meetings now seems more significant and is therefore something worth complaining about.

In the end the complaint shows a wider reckoning concerning the way in which we spend our collective time.

Meetings are the gripe that shows up in every office chat, and that grumbling hints at something deeper about how we try to get people to work together.

When calendar apps made setting a meeting as easy as a couple of clicks, the old excuse of "I don't have time" vanished. Suddenly, calling a meeting cost nothing, so the number of invites blew up, even though the usefulness didn't keep pace.

Then remote‑first and hybrid setups arrived. Without the chance to bump into a colleague by the coffee machine, teams started penciling in formal slots for what used to happen in hallway banter. The result? Calendars jammed with back‑to‑back calls that keep the mind from settling on one task.

People also mix up "being busy" with "getting stuff done." A meeting puts a visible stamp on the day, a list of attendees, a stack of notes, a handful of action items, and that looks good to anyone who has to prove something got done. Often the same goal could be hit with a quick Slack message, but the meeting feels safer.

Bad meeting habits have turned into the norm. The agenda is vague, nobody knows who actually decides, the room fills up with too many names, and the default slot is a half‑hour or an hour even when the topic would need far less. Most companies never teach folks how to run a decent meeting, so the slip‑ups just pile on.

Meanwhile, a lot of knowledge workers crave long stretches of uninterrupted focus. Every call pops up like a sudden alarm, breaking that "flow" state and making the cost of each meeting feel sharper.

All in all, the endless complaints are really a sign that we're rethinking how we spend the hours we share. It's not just about the meetings themselves, but about the whole idea of collective time.